My Father-in-Law has been on my mind. I recently had the
opportunity to drive to Pennsylvania and visit with him. For those that are not
aware, this is Brenda’s dad. He is now in a nursing home in Ephrata, PA. He may
be confined to a bed, but his mind and spirit are as good as ever and continue
to lift up the spirits of anyone who visits with him.
I know many Godly people and my Father-in-Law ranks up
there in the top three. I ran across Psalm 37 in my devotion and in my mind
it’s like David knows my Father-in-Law. Psalm 37:1-8 really is a picture of
Mahlon’s heart.
1 Don’t get upset about evil
people.
Don’t be jealous of those who do wrong.
2 They are like grass and other green plants
that dry up quickly and then die.
3 So trust in the Lord and do good.
Live on your land and be dependable.
4 Enjoy serving the Lord,
and he will give you whatever you ask for.
5 Depend on the Lord.
Trust in him, and he will help you.
6 He will make it as clear as day that you are right.
Everyone will see that you are being fair.
7 Trust in the Lord and wait quietly for his help.
Don’t be angry when people make evil plans and succeed.
8 Don’t become so angry and upset that you, too, want to do evil.
Don’t be jealous of those who do wrong.
2 They are like grass and other green plants
that dry up quickly and then die.
3 So trust in the Lord and do good.
Live on your land and be dependable.
4 Enjoy serving the Lord,
and he will give you whatever you ask for.
5 Depend on the Lord.
Trust in him, and he will help you.
6 He will make it as clear as day that you are right.
Everyone will see that you are being fair.
7 Trust in the Lord and wait quietly for his help.
Don’t be angry when people make evil plans and succeed.
8 Don’t become so angry and upset that you, too, want to do evil.
Mahlon is a Godly man. One can take
several points from this Psalm of David and see Mahlon. I know in my heart
Mahlon would not like me to talk this way about him. But in his humble way he
impacts my life. And though I fail in so many ways, I know I can look to my
Father-in-Law as an example of what it means to be Christ-like.
“Enjoy serving the Lord” (Ps. 37:4). Take delight in serving! Christians should rejoice in God
and desire to walk in obedience. The Lord must have first place in our life and
I know where God’s place is with Mahlon. And I thank God for his example of
delightful, humble service. Even when confined to a bed, He shows delight in
serving God. The many times I remember Mahlon serving, whether in the family
Farm Market or in church, it was always with a smile and a willing heart.
“Depend on the Lord. Trust in Him” (v. 5). My Father-in-Law allows God to lead him in everything. And
like him we must allow God to change any aspect of our ambition that is not His
will. Remember that when God doesn't answer a prayer as we wish, sometimes He
has something better in mind and it’s for a reason. God can still speak from a bed
in a nursing home as well as He can from a burning bush.
“Trust in Him”
(v. 5). Mahlon is wise, kind, and generous. God is merciful, all-knowing, kind,
and generous. One thing my Father-in-law has taught me is that we can trust God
with our hopes and dreams. Mahlon lives and not only tells people about Jesus
but is obedient to God’s plan and shows people how to live Christ-like lives.
Mahlon actually puts God’s word into action.
“Wait quietly”
(v. 7). Waiting quietly means trusting God to answer prayers in His timing and
in His way so they conform to His will. In chatting with Mahlon he has
mentioned he doesn’t want to be a burden. I just calmly let him know he teaches
us each day and for him to stay obedient to the end…whatever that is or
whenever that is. God can and will use our labors here until that time he calls
us to heaven.
Jesus waited thirty
years before beginning His three-year ministry on earth. According to His
example, waiting is one of the key principles of Christian living. Some people
need to wait only a few months, and some need to wait a lifetime. Nothing is
ever wasted if used for God’s glory.
Do you feel like
giving up? Do you feel a like you have a burden or that you are a burden? Ask
yourself this: Do your desires align with God's purpose and plan for your life?
I can say with
confidence that my Father-in-Law’s example has taught this son-in-law what it
means to live Christ-like. It’s not always easy or convenient to do what God
wants us to do. But as Mahlon has taught me, living Christ-like is the right
thing to do. I cannot speak for him, but I feel Mahlon would want you to know
that God wants to give His followers abundant blessings and fullness of joy. And more so, when you can show in your life,
as Mahlon does in his, that Jesus has first place in our life, God is faithful
to show Himself mighty, merciful gracious to those around us.
There is a song
that says:
When peace, like a river, attendeth my way,
When sorrows like sea billows roll;
Whatever my lot, Thou has taught me to say,
It is well, it is well, with my soul.
When sorrows like sea billows roll;
Whatever my lot, Thou has taught me to say,
It is well, it is well, with my soul.
And Lord, haste the day when my faith shall be sight,
The clouds be rolled back as a scroll;
The trump shall resound, and the Lord shall descend,
Even so, it is well with my soul.
The clouds be rolled back as a scroll;
The trump shall resound, and the Lord shall descend,
Even so, it is well with my soul.
I can’t say it better.